Parents and Coaches Together (PACT) is an educational program developed at the University of Notre Dame’s Center for Ethical Education and Development. The program is:
By Iván Woyno – Director of Member Services (MYSA)
In my role as Minnesota Youth Soccer Association Director of Member Services, I often have the chance to ask parents, coaches and club officials about their ongoing efforts to grow and develop soccer in the state. The feedback I receive helps me gather a mental image of the soccer culture in the area as well as foment discussions within it. Last year, a club official forwarded to my attention the following parent feedback. The purpose of forwarding the feedback was to inquire about Parent and Coaches Together (PACT) seminars, as the opposing team’s club had been hosting them for a few years and their effect could clearly be seen in the example provided.
Seminars are offered November through April and are free of cost for attendees of MYSA member clubs. The Parent Seminar is designed to help parents and/or spectators understand how to create a positive climate on the sidelines in order to encourage growth and improve self-esteem by players and referees alike. Helping parents understand major differences between intrinsic and extrinsic motivational factors empowers parents to help the athletes beyond the short term and develop a strategy for long term success and participation.
Addressing verbal and non-verbal communication tools, the seminars are designed to help bridge generational gaps and ensure that we are developing strong character athletes and not simply developing characters. By further defining what can and can’t be controlled in soccer, presenters are able to provide a unique perspective to the spectator in order to motivate the athlete to become a champion and not just a competitor. All of these tools are designed to help foster sportsmanship among teams, as well as unify parents in a common goal – the betterment of all soccer players in Minnesota.
The Coach Seminar is designed in similar fashion but it is purposively oriented on creating a nurturing climate versus a negative climate throughout a soccer player’s development years while at practices or games. Including information on player motivation and strategies to create smarter goals and objectives, the seminar empowers coaches to reach out to athletes in positive ways to help ensure long lasting participation in the sport. The presenters provide coaches with various communication models to help bridge communication gaps with parents and players in order to set common goals and avoid a decrease in participation and enthusiasm that can often lead to burnout and/or abandonment of the sport by the athlete.
Addressing key components to a successful season such as a pre, during and post season meetings and their content, coaches can learn strategies to ensure that they are creating not just great soccer players, but outstanding citizens. By ensuring that coaches are creating a champion sideline committee, engaging all parents and spectators and promoting a compete ‘with’ and not ‘against’, the PACT program can help promote growth at the club level and develop ambassadors of the game across all participation levels.
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